The Ultimate Guide to the Home Buying Process: From Dreaming to Closing
- Jillian Kemmerer
- Feb 6
- 5 min read
Buying a home is one of the most exciting milestones in life, but it can also feel overwhelming. Whether you’re a first-time buyer or it’s been a while since your last purchase, understanding the steps involved can make the process smoother and less stressful. This guide breaks down the journey into manageable steps—from checking your credit score to signing on the dotted line at closing.

1. Check Your Credit Score
Your credit score determines which lenders will work with you, what sort of mortgage you can get and what assistance programs may be available to you, and what terms you will be offered. Before starting the home-buying process, review your credit report for accuracy and address any issues that could impact your score. If you have a less-than-great score, a good lender will also be able to walk you through ways to improve your credit, and the steps to take that will make the biggest impact on your particular situation! (PS - Ask your Realtor® for their suggestion for the best local lender!)
2. Get Pre-Approved for a Loan
Knowing exactly how much you’d be able to borrow sets your budget and gives you an idea of what you are looking at as far as payments go, and it shows sellers your seriousness as a buyer. Shop around and compare different lenders to ensure you get the best loan terms. Not every lender is the same, and it is definitely a good idea to try and use a local lender. (PS - AGAIN - Ask your Realtor® for their suggestion for the best local lender!) Who you work with matters. You want to work with people who know the area, get to know you and your specific situation, and have a great reputation and good relationship with other people in the Real Estate Business. I don’t know about you, but calling a random “800” number, and speaking to the person in the cubical who happens to pick up the phone is not the way I want to handle getting approval for one of the biggest purchases of my life.
Pro Tip: Pre-approval gives you a competitive edge in a hot market.
3. Figure Out How Much to Spend - *Hint- your pre-approved amount and your budget are NOT always the same thing!
A pre-approval is a number that you CAN qualify for. But you know your everyday expenses like food, gas, entertainment, gym memberships - all of the little things that don’t always get factored in when speaking to a lender. Avoid maxing out your bank loan. Allot a budget for utilities, food, and other monthly expenses in addition to your mortgage payment. Financial balance is key to long-term homeownership success. You will also want to make sure you plan for the unexpected - car repairs, broken toilets, and a leaking roof can easily become emergencies if you have not planned for them!
4. Find the Right Real Estate Agent
Do your research and hire an agent with a proven track record who works for YOUR best interest, and not just to make the next sale happen. The ideal real estate agent should have up-to-date market knowledge, top-notch negotiation skills, know the neighborhoods, and know their clients well . They will be your guide and advocate throughout the process, so you want to make sure you take your time and not just sign your Agency Agreement with the first agent you spoke to when you called the random website call number. The agent who pays listing websites the most are the ones who get the leads from auxiliary websites - but that doesn’t mean they are the best for you.
Pro Tip: Look for online reviews, ask for referrals from friends or family, and do some digging! It worth finding the right agent for you!
5. Go House Hunting
After finding the right agent, discuss your needs, preferences, and other criteria to narrow your search. Consider factors such as:
The type and size of home you want - How many bedrooms? Do you need an office area? Is the yard a big deal or would you rather not have to deal with mowing? What about parking - is a garage a “deal breaker” for you, or not really?
Proximity to transportation and amenities - do you want to have to drive to get everywhere, or do you want to be able to hop on a bus or call and ride-share service quickly? Do you like walking through town or the city, or do you prefer a country setting where your neighbors are spread out?
School districts (if applicable)- if you have kids, or you plan to have kids and staying in this house long enough, this is certainly a factor to consider!
Take notes and pictures during tours to help you remember key details.
6. Make a Fair Offer
Once you find a house you are ready to make an offer on, work with your agent to make an offer that’s neither too low nor too high. Your agent can compare recently sold homes nearby to determine a fair price and discuss contingency stipulations to include in your offer. Don’t over pay, but if you are always trying to “get a great deal” you may be in the market for longer than you hope, and you may miss out on the perfect house!
Pro Tip: Be prepared for multiple offer situations, counteroffers and remain flexible during negotiations.
7. Schedule a Home Inspection
If you have an inspection contingency (for most homebuyers, this should be a non-negotiable), this is your opportunity to uncover potential issues. A professional inspection can reveal serious problems that the seller might not disclose. If necessary, negotiate repairs or price reductions based on the inspection report. Remember: You don’t really “Pass” or “Fail” inspections. An inspection shows you what you’re working with - but it’s up to the buyers to be smart, clear-eyed, and ready to walk away if something can’t be fixed or is a major red flag.
8. Close the Sale and Move In
Closing day is the final step- WOohOo!!! Before signing the final paperwork:
Do a final walk-through to ensure everything is as you remember and expect it to be.
Review closing documents carefully- if something doesn’t seem right, make sure you ask questions so you feel comfortable with everything you see.
Sign the documents, pay the closing costs, and now- YOU’RE A HOME OWNER!
Once you sign, the keys are yours—welcome home!
The home buying process can feel daunting, but with the right preparation and guidance, and the right team working with you, it can also be incredibly exciting and definitely rewarding. By breaking it down into these steps, you’ll feel confident and excited as you move closer to unlocking the door to your dream home.

Ready to take the first step? Let’s connect! I’m here to answer your questions and guide you every step of the way. Shoot me a message or give me a call—let’s make your dream home a reality!



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